Memorial Day: finding joy

Insider look at Memorial dayToday I’m taking an insider look at Memorial Day.  I did not grow up with a clear idea of  how to celebrate on Memorial day.  I generally knew it was a day to remember people in our lives who have died, but I did not know that the main focus is to celebrate men and women who died in war.

A Sacred Beginning

Originally, Memorial Day  was established as a day of remembrance to honor soldiers who died during the US Civil War . Today many people think of the holiday as the onset of summer, celebrating with barbecues and going to the beach.

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When the Civil War ended in 1865, Americans faced a loss of 620,000 people due  to the conflict. Waterloo, New York began having an annual and organized remembrance day in May 1866. On that day businesses closed and military graves were decorated with flags and flowers.

Major General John Logan, head of an organization of Union veterans, called for a national celebration to honor fallen Civil War soldiers. Future president James  Garfield presided over the first “Decoration Day” on May 30, 1868 at Arlington National Cemetery.

The actual Memorial Day Holiday we know today started in 1968, when Congress passed the Uniform Monday Holiday Act to make it an official federal holiday, using the last Monday in May (yay for three day weekends!).

With fewer and fewer people associated directly with war deaths, the significance of the holiday may have waned, marking it as celebration for the onset of summer. I t s never appropriate to portray Memorial Day as a joyous day. However, it is a day when we can celebrate and remember soldier/comrades who have given their lives. There is joy in knowing the world has been blessed with fine men and women, who died to make the world better.

Inside look

 I try to relate everything to the Bible. The history of the holiday does not speak to  a Biblical perspective. Nevertheless, among the veterans and veteran families I have known (and continue to know), God still has a role in our daily faith. In times of grief,  fear or  uncertainty, only God can provide a stabilizing presence and the strength to get us through.
I am usually torn up inside around Memorial Day, as I think about the heroes who died to save each other and our country.  These men and women deserve our consideration and remembrance. Their stories are amazing and inspiring. A few years ago, one of my favorite books was  God in the Foxhole : Inspiring True Stories of Miracles on the Battlefield by Charles W Sasser. Every one of these stories shows God’s grace and love, towards people who seek and find His loving arms.
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The Bible was written long before Memorial Day was ever formalized.  The Old Testament speaks of  battles, many of which were pretty gruesome. At the beginning of 2 Samuel (1:11-12),  David is told about the death of Saul and his sons. Even though Saul was an adversary, David still held him in high regard, and mourned his loss. Regardless of what we think about war, battles are represented by individuals, with families. Any human loss is painful and each individual should be remembered.

Sadness and Mourning

When mourning gets really intense, it can be a time to get Biblical counseling.  Having a spiritually mature friend who can help us confront our grief, and lovingly redirect the pain, can help us solve a wealth of problems.  Galatians 6:2 says  Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” A Christian spirit of meekness helps the grieving person to prevent rejecting biblical counsel. In the process, the grieving person can focus on the inspiration of the lost loved one’s giving and kindness. Remembering their positive influence can produce joy which is sharable with others.

Our grief can act as a way to show love for our neighbor, and thus  demonstrate our love for God.Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort

 The most vital outcome for grief is to have our hearts focused on Jesus Christ.  Knowing him and knowing His promises will sustain us during these dark days.

2 Corinthians 4:15 says All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.

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